This weekend at the Shop!
10am to 6pm Saturday 16 November, our South Yarra Shop, The Psychic Star, at 53 Myrtle Street South Yarra is open to the public! Come on down and take 15% off any marked prices of products in store but that's for tomorrow only!
Britney will be manning or personing the front desk and we welcome you to drop in and say hi or have a ponder.
I will be in reading appointments and might have a couple of last minute spots.
In a few weeks we will announce dates for mini readings with my graduate students by donation (proceeds go to charity).
We are conveniently located just off Toorak Road in South Yarra, so come on down.
(For directions, click the map on the left)...
A word on Soul Mates
The problem with the heart opening to the degree a soul mate connection encourages within us it that the mind's reaction to such an energy shift is often to try compensating by over thinking. That is where fear can kick in. This is why you often see soul mates hearts collide, go "boom" and then one of them, or the other "freaks out" and runs....Even if temporarily... They often find themselves drawn magnetically back together at some point, and thats where they can either each realise how essential it feels for both for them to remain together, or in less often cases resolve their long held karma together (possibly life times of it) and then move away from each other...
Not all soul mate relationships work out, because both individuals have free will, and there is almost always big lessons, events, and energies which can be tumultuous, to a greater or lesser degree according to how each handles it all together...The results of it in any case are what each couple makes of it together.
It's also important not to seek someone to complete you, not to see yourself as one half, but to make yourself whole. When you learn to love yourself, you will attract the right person who is also able to love you and equally be their own person while with you, and then you both bring out the best in each other. After all relationships take two people...If both of you are focused only on the needs, wants, desires of one of you, then there is only one person essentially "in" the relationship, or about whom the relationships focuses, exists and revolves around... something like that therefore collapses really quickly. This is why sometimes soul mate connections come together, move apart and later rejoin, because may be both of them need to grow in their own ways and apart for a while before being ready for each other.
So how do you know you have your soul mate?
Usually the astrology charts of the soul mate couple will have major life time conjunctions of planets in their natal charts which creates a life time of attraction, as against couplings where natal chart synastry may seem a bit weak, but because of transiting planets (energies travelling through for a period of time)the couple comes together and as the transit arrives and upon the end of the transit in question, the couple separates.
However, if a couple has been together or in love for more than twenty years, are still close and affectionate and refers to each other as soul mates and they are just as in love as the day they met, or more so, I am hardly going to argue against their proclamation.
Generally people speak of the first time they lay eyes on that person, just "knowing" them, and feeling completely calm and magnetically drawn to them. Often soul mates will have incredibly coinciding similar life events, and a criss crossing of life events that would have brought them together no matter what, eventually, and its a connection like no other they have met or will. It can also be that the attraction seems somehow illogical and not at all like the type you would normally go for...of course...
If you have your soul mate and you are both living and being the best you each that you can, then it can mean a lifetime of love and companionship. If you are having trouble working out who your soul mate is, the best place to begin that search is looking is within yourself. From there we have all kinds of tools and energies we can utilize to help you clarify how well you work in your relationship or potential connection, and how to make more of the one you have. Relationships are invariably stages of growth, of learning to listen to each other and also to share your feelings, thoughts, hopes, dreams, and washing up duty.